When you come to the point of Ethical Growth where you become aware of the Power of Choice of others to the point of Value and Preservation of the Power of Choice of Others equal to your own.
When you realize that there are three entities between two people: You, Them, and The Universe. And to harm the Universe is to harm All. To harm Others, is to Harm the Self. And to Preserve Others is Self-Preservation…
Only then do you become consciously aware of the full scope of just how much power is at your disposal… and only then at this level of Comprehension does the Universe finally let you have it.
This is the 3rd Ethic of the They of I.